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Start With Good Morning
A friend of mine says that when she wakes up anxious or depressed, she takes a walk and says “good morning” to everyone she meets along...
Paul Weinfield
Jun 122 min read


Double Down On Being Human
I recently read a story about a woman who used to bully her Alexa device. It started with the woman teasing Alexa when it made a mistake;...
Paul Weinfield
Jun 102 min read


We Suffer From Our Unlived Lives
One commonly-used phrase in healing circles is “holding space for pain.” On the one hand, it’s pretty literal: we all need safe people to...
Paul Weinfield
May 262 min read


Be The Medicine, Not The Drug
The other day I posted a video of my song, “If You’re Lucky Your Heart Will Break.” It’s about the way that pain can be an important...
Paul Weinfield
May 232 min read


Boredom Is A Great Teacher
In the early 2010s, a series of scientific studies proved that people would rather feel pain than be bored. In one experiment,...
Paul Weinfield
May 212 min read


The Way The World Works Doesn't Work
I recently saw a documentary about a beach in Ghana where a huge percentage of the world’s clothing washes up each year. In the film, a...
Paul Weinfield
May 192 min read


Resist
I recently saw a video of ICE agents throwing a woman against a wall, zip-tying her, and then releasing her when they realized they had...
Paul Weinfield
May 142 min read


Validation Won't Heal Us
One of my insecurities is feeling sometimes like I don’t have enough style. As a musician, for example, I can be confident in the content...
Paul Weinfield
May 122 min read


Don't Get Too High, Don't Get Too Low
Ajaan Chah’s student once got into a fight with another monk. Walking away, he came upon Ajaan Chah, who gave him a big smile. Right...
Paul Weinfield
May 92 min read


No One Gets Away With Anything
In Dostoevsky’s novel Crime and Punishment, a young man murders an old lady. He initially feels justified in his action. She’s going to...
Paul Weinfield
May 72 min read


Take Back Your Apartment
The biggest party I ever threw was twenty years ago in Cairo. It wasn’t supposed to be big: I only invited about six people, some of whom...
Paul Weinfield
May 52 min read


You Are Waiting For Too Much
Chögyam Trungpa used to warn about waiting for “the dream come true.” All of us, in our own ways, are waiting for life to conform to some...
Paul Weinfield
May 42 min read


Don't Run Down the Clock
The Buddha said that every evening, when you see the sun set, you should remind yourself that this might be the last sunset you ever see....
Paul Weinfield
May 12 min read


There Are No Others
There’s a Hasidic story about a rabbi who asks his students, “How can you tell the exact line between night and day?” “Is it the moment...
Paul Weinfield
Apr 292 min read


There's A Lot Going On
The other day, I was walking down the street when I saw an old man lying on the pavement, blood streaming down his face. People were...
Paul Weinfield
Apr 262 min read


Tune, Tune, Tune
In 2015, I kept having dreams in which my grandmother told me to go to the Greek island of Patmos. I decided to make a pilgrimage there...
Paul Weinfield
Apr 242 min read


Tighten Up
New Age spirituality talks a lot about the power of intention. But people often have a very lazy definition of what intention is. “It’s...
Paul Weinfield
Apr 222 min read


Just Ask
There’s a Persian expression, kolah gozashtan, which means to play a trick on someone, but it literally means to “put a hat on” them. The...
Paul Weinfield
Apr 192 min read


Don't Ask What Time Your Shift Is Over
There’s an Ethiopian story about a woman who could not get her stepson to like her. She went to a medicine man, who told her to prepare a...
Paul Weinfield
Apr 172 min read


The Old Practices Still Work
If I had to sum up my current newsfeed with a headline, it would be: “EVERYTHING IS DIFFERENT NOW.” Political analysts say we’re living...
Paul Weinfield
Apr 152 min read

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